March 19, 2019

 E N E R G Y 

Let's talk about it.

It's in everything we do, have, and create. 

Everything in this world is made up of energy. 

That's how Marie Kondo made such a name for herself. 

She knew that even the items in our homes held energy. She knew if we focused on them for a...

February 5, 2019

(Me, yes me. I am a natural blonde. Back in 2017 when I announced I was leaving my hubs) 

Yup. I'm still fucking married. 20 months later.

Everyone is so surprised when I bring up my ex in person and they 

realize we are in fact still legally married. It always makes me s...

January 28, 2019

I started this on New Years Day. Here we are 27  days in, and I am still struggling to find the words. The words that haven't already been expressed on my Instagram and seen in my stories. The words that will impact someone and spark something in someone else. So I hop...

October 31, 2018

** Warning: Graphic. This may be a trigger for those whom suffer from

depression and have encountered sucidal thoughts.**

"She laid there

Stiff as a board

Her eyes glazed over with tears

Water beating down on her legs

The longer she laid there

The more crimson the water beca...

October 3, 2018

Two things

1. This is about sexual assault and may trigger those whom have fallen victim to it as well. T

his is my story, in detail please read on with caution. 

2. I am dedicating this blog to my dearest friend Marcy who has created and is hosting an event this mo...

September 19, 2018

I just want to start by saying thank you for our daughter.  She’s the most amazing and rewarding thing in my life, as I’m sure yours.

I also want to thank you for all of your support over the years and pushing me to go further and further in my career, and aiding in my...

September 19, 2018

As a stylist, blogger and influencer myself, I have an obsession with being authentic and surrounding my self with authentic people. However sometimes being authentic isn't the cool thing to do. It actually puts me in a vulnerable state 80% of the time. 

I have bee...

August 19, 2018

I'll Eat You Up, I Love You So

 (Photo by Julie Jackson Photography)

So many of my girlfriends are entering motherhood right now.

It instantly brings me back to 4 years ago...

The crib was put together, the diaper bag was bought, the books had been read.
I thought I was...

August 10, 2018

(Couch is from Walmart, Pillows are from Marshalls, Guitar is Nashville inspired and strictly decor haha. I had intensions of learning, but never made it a priority)

 Last spring when I left my husband I got my own apartment. It was beautiful and everything I neede...

July 27, 2018

I’m not going to apologize.

That’s not the point of this letter.

This letter isn’t even for you, it’s actually for me. 

It’s to cultivate my own closure that I never got, since things ended not only awkwardly but abruptly. 

I will say thank you though..

Thank you for leavin...

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