September 9, 2019

Most of you don’t know the whole story, you haven’t seen the entire picture (Part I)

On the gram, especially things get cut, filtered, and edited for your viewing pleasure

It wasn’t until yesterday that I realized after sharing the cause of my divorce on my story that SO...

May 22, 2019

I made a promise to myself years ago 

To never fall for someone 

Someone, who made me feel like

I was hard to love

But here I am on the brink of falling 

So if I am 

If I am hard to love 

(for your small minded heart)

If I am too much, or not enough 

(for your insecuritie...

April 8, 2019


As I sit here on my bed at 5:33 pm Saturday Evening,

I am about to embark on a full 24 hours of silence. 

I'm talking, no TV, no music, no speaking to others, no social media, no phone usage period. Just me. Alone. (Oh and my cat) for 24 Hours of solitude that I am...

March 19, 2019

 E N E R G Y 

Let's talk about it.

It's in everything we do, have, and create. 

Everything in this world is made up of energy. 

That's how Marie Kondo made such a name for herself. 

She knew that even the items in our homes held energy. She knew if we focused on them for a...

February 5, 2019

(Me, yes me. I am a natural blonde. Back in 2017 when I announced I was leaving my hubs) 

Yup. I'm still fucking married. 20 months later.

Everyone is so surprised when I bring up my ex in person and they 

realize we are in fact still legally married. It always makes me s...

January 28, 2019

I started this on New Years Day. Here we are 27  days in, and I am still struggling to find the words. The words that haven't already been expressed on my Instagram and seen in my stories. The words that will impact someone and spark something in someone else. So I hop...

October 31, 2018

** Warning: Graphic. This may be a trigger for those whom suffer from

depression and have encountered sucidal thoughts.**

"She laid there

Stiff as a board

Her eyes glazed over with tears

Water beating down on her legs

The longer she laid there

The more crimson the water beca...

October 3, 2018

Two things

1. This is about sexual assault and may trigger those whom have fallen victim to it as well. T

his is my story, in detail please read on with caution. 

2. I am dedicating this blog to my dearest friend Marcy who has created and is hosting an event this mo...

September 19, 2018

I just want to start by saying thank you for our daughter.  She’s the most amazing and rewarding thing in my life, as I’m sure yours.

I also want to thank you for all of your support over the years and pushing me to go further and further in my career, and aiding in my...

September 19, 2018

As a stylist, blogger and influencer myself, I have an obsession with being authentic and surrounding my self with authentic people. However sometimes being authentic isn't the cool thing to do. It actually puts me in a vulnerable state 80% of the time. 

I have bee...

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